Me and Brayden

…my lifetime
listens to yours…

What would happen if one woman told the truth about
        her life?
     The world would split open…

Muriel Rukeyser, from Käthe Kolwitz

The truth about my life:
I try to make sense of the world by writing. Inquiring. Composing.
I struggle to balance work and family.

How often do I write? All the time.
How often do I laugh with my family?
All the time.Family laugh

How often do I read a book about the craft of writing? Every few weeks.
How often do I see my parents? Every few weeks.

How often do I sit down, write deeply, and edit past work? At least once a week.
How often do I babysit my grandchildren? At least once a week.

How often do I take notes of phrases, quotes from others, my own ideas for writing? Every day.
How often do I hike through the California canyon I call my backyard? Every day.

How often do I question whether I should spend any moments stringing together words as art when someone somewhere dies of starvation, or illness, or loneliness, every day, every hour? Every minute.

How often am I humbled with gratitude for sharing my life with a man who understands what I’m trying to say? Every second.

I’m not a politician, not a business entrepreneur, not a monk, not a soldier,
not asleep. I’m a human being writer, teacher, speaker, with a wild imagination for a kinder, gentler, more respectful tomorrow.

“Share what you have,” my mama always said.

So, I write.

Am I published?
Yes. You can read all about my publications on the POET and STORYTELLER pages.

Have I taught anyone how to do this thing called writing?
Yes, for many years. You can read about all the topics I’ve taught, and am teaching, on the TEACHER page.

Am I a good literary citizen?

ALonfFuDQPCh%KWUTe%iww_thumb_1c64Yes. Being a good literary citizen means I support other writers, literary journals, and independent bookstores. Once I started a small literary journal called dirtcakes. With a staff of dedicated volunteers, we put out four issues, each one dedicated to exploring themes suggested by the UN Millennium Development goals to end extreme poverty. We published writers and photographers representing more than 15 countries. I just discovered you can still buy copies on Amazon, though I’ve yet to figure out who makes the money on what sells. It makes me smile to know the journal is still available.

What else do I do? I’m a wedding officiant, and I hold a certificate in Mindfulness training.

Wedding Officiant

I’m a speaker for the Orange County Human Relations #HateFreeOC campaign.


I bake really good sourdough bread from scratch. And I’m alive.

Let’s work together.
Butterfly Me